Decided on something
In another second, you undecided on something
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You was walking one direction
Then, you flip’ in heart and undecided to head the other direction
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Generous today with everyone
One year later, you’ve undecided on all that and are meaner like never before
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Sound like anybody you know?
I guess if you don’t like this whole cross-uncrossing thing, then you better ask yourself good why you’re always at it
And also, if you still like your life criss-crossed, keep doing your thing, y’all
Such a nice way of dealing with life adversities, you have to be undecided sometimes to make a decision that is right for you.
Hhhmmmm….if you say so, Juliva! ?❤️?
Growing and changing from life lessons is an important part of being human. Criss crossing is a normal part of figuring things out I feel.
Hhhhmmmmm…..alright please! Thank you for sharing. ?❤️?
I would have to agree. The point is that you learn from each stage. What caused you to “undecide”? Was it a situation that you could not have imagined would have happened when you decided the first time? Would you rather go back to the first decision? Was it a naive one? We’d rather not go back and forth, but as we live and learn, we have to change accordingly. As Muhammed Ali once said, “A 50 year old man who thinks the same way he did at 30 just wasted 20 years of his life.”
Aaaaahhhh yes, Scott! With every step we make, there has to be something we learn!
hmm.. not sure. I am more the consistent types.
Hhhhhmmmm….aaalllrrriiiggghhhhtttttt then! If you say so. ?❤️?
Being undecided is your prerogative!! You do you!
Hhhhmmmmmm….aalllrriiigghhhttttt then! Thank you for sharing. ?❤️?
O yeah…. That feeling of indecisiveness…… We’ve all been there….. Difficult
Hhhhmmmmm….true, Beluso! ?❤️?
Interesting insight… thanks for sharing your thoughts and opinions.
?? you’re welcome, Aleese! ?❤️?
We all go through this at some point in our life, where we dont know which way to turn.
Hhhhhmmmmmm….that’s true! ?❤️❤️
Sometimes it’s tough figuring out which path leads you to your happiness. You just have to take one and see how it plays out.
Hhhhmmmmmm….aaalllrrriiiggghhhhtttttt! ?❤️?
Decisions, decisions. Each of us have a major crossroad to think about.
Hhhmmmmmm….alright Shirin! If you say so. ?❤️?
Sometimes in life there’s possible that you need to undecided for your own good! I like your post!
Hhhhmmmmm….thank you honey! ?❤️?
I agree. Sometimes crisscrossing is a part of maturing human
Oooohhhh….alright Prabashi! If you say so…. ?❤️?
Because sometimes, we don’t know what we want to start with. Or..
there’s a fear.
Ooooohhhhh….alright Chai! If you say so. ?❤️?
I believe we have to come face off with indecision before we finally decide. Do you think so?
Yeah, I do, most definitely.
Criss-crossing can be good sometimes. What examples would you say be good and bad?
Hhhhmmmmmm….having a budget…going shopping, you change your mind suddenly. That could be one of them! ?❤️?
I am only human, I change my mind at times. I make un-decisive decision 🙂
Ooohhhhhh….I kkknnnooowwwww and it’s perfectly fine. ?❤️?
I am only human, I change my mind at times. I make un-decisive decisions 🙂
?? that’s alright! ❤️
Wowwww! This is really gooooood…………. Thanks for sharing.
Aaaawwww….you’re welcome! ?❤️?
To each his own, I guess. Others are as decisive as they can be while others chicken out or better yet others rationalize.
Hhhhmmmmmm….alright. If you say so! ?❤️?
I’d have to say this is not me. I usually keep to my decisions because I make them thoughtfully and go with my intuition.
Oooohhhhh….nnniiiccceeee! I love that. ?❤️?
Really a great piece. This is my first time actually seeing this 2 words used together, after reading i understood the meaning thanks for sharing
Oooohhhhh…I’m glad to hear that, Matthew! ?❤️?
Life always offers choices and decisions are integral to make any choice! As travel bloggers, we choose to go with the flow many a times! And those have been some of the decisions.
Ooohhhh….alright! If you say so…. ?❤️?
Thoughtful post. I guess we all suffer from indecision sometimes but I believe that shouldn’t stop us from moving forward.
Hhhhmmmmm…..alright Kamapala! If you say so…. ?❤️❤️
Story of our life…! So many decisions to make and so many things to reflect on!
Oooohhhh yyyeeeaaahhhhh! ?❤️?
Different circumstances may cause a change in the way you handle different issues. At a point in my life I changed to be the opposite of what I am known for, mainly because my simplicity was been taken for stupidity.
Oooohhhh…. alright Adaeze! If you say so! ?❤️?
Great blog! Wishing you the best in your future endeavors!
Aaaawwww….thank you, Tanya! ?❤️?
Blame it on the frontal cortex..:P
Hehe…..alright! If you say so. ?❤️?
Criss crossing on decisions in life is so common. I wish that sometimes I could just stick to my decisions!
Aaaawwww….you can make it happen, actually Meygan! ?❤️?
I am that person who constantly criss crosses on my own decisions. It would be so much easier if someone can make a decision for me sometimes LOL.
?? alright Pavan! If you say so. ?❤️?
Ugh, I can relate so much to this post! I’m always indecisive no matter what things I need to make a decision on. 🙁
Aaaawwww….that’s unfortunate, Valerie! ?❤️?
I think myself to be a very indecisive person. I’m a planner though, but most times with plans laid out I still find myself undecided about so many things, and in those times I just go with the flow. I think everyone has their fair share of those “cross-road” moments and times.
Hhhmmmm….yeah Grace! Even I, the author, still do doubt my choices every once in a while. ?❤️?
I am always criss crosses on my own decisions but I think this just how human brains work.
Hhhmmmmm….alright Niki! ?❤️?
Sometimes we decide to do something,we have our life plan ahead, but we have to undo stuff because of circumstances. I don’t judge people that Criss-Cross decisions. I only judge people that do it every day like for every stupid decision I get your point, but we have to look at the circumstances.
?? that’s alright, Jess!
hahahaha I do this all the time. I can be very indecisive at times. I pick one thing and then change and do the opposite, and then go back. Sometimes for the better, sometimes worse! haha
??? aaahhhh…that’s good to know!
I love your blog so much. You bring such positivity and a fresh look at things.
?? aaawww….thank you, Brianne!
Thank you so much for sharing this thoughtful post.
?? you’re welcome.
A lot to think about! Nice post!
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We definitely all go through times when we’re indecisive!
?? yyyeeaahhhh!
I like that. By making a decision, you have undecided something else. Never thought of it that way!
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I always think before I decide things so very rarely do I change my mind on things. Thus I am really never mad at the decisions I make.
???? good for you, GiGi!
It can be frustrating when one is at a crossroads at their lives. It just mean you need to make decisions with sound minds and lots of long term thoughts.
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It’s really amazing how people, especially ourselves, can change our minds on many things. I always try to change for the better.
? I know, rrriiiggghhhtttt?
It’s difficult to start and sometimes we don’t know how to. Put your head up high!
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