A baby that has a baby of their own
Wow
The sounds of thatβ¦.how do you like it?
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Make out the picture of it and share with me, what you see there
Is it something pretty? Disgusting? Disappointing? Something you have never seen ever before?
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How I wish I had made better life choices
And I wish someone had told me about these things that I know now, back then
How I wish I had a very strong tone to my no back then
How I wish I had role-models that I looked up to, back then, that didnβt point me to this direction, one way or the other
How I wish my own fam and friends did their part well enough and over time
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Mmmssscccchhheeewwwwwwwβ¦.
All I can do is be the baby that I still amβ¦
I am a baby that has a baby
We are all babies untill we are not. Hard to say when it happens.
Wwwwoooowwwwwww….thank you, Aguslawa!
Sometimes I think we are all just babies guessing up and about life – exploring.
The less one explores, the less babish they appear to society.
Aaaaahhhhhh…..alright Francis. If you say so!
we learn through experiences. it is a trial and error. so yeah, one step at a time. Maybe baby steps i guess
Aaaannnnhhhhhaaaaa….my be youβre right, Nina! ?β€οΈ?
We completely empathize! The moment someone mentions having a baby… We wonder how! We r 30 and still feel like kids
Hhhhhhmmmmmmm….thatβs very interesting! ??β€οΈ
ohh, You are totally right!
Oooohhhhh….thank you. Iβm so glad to hear this! ??β€οΈ
Life is an open mine and unless we explore it. We can never tell when it’s time we blow up!
Aaaaahhhhhhh…..alright, Balogun! If you say so. Thank you.
This is so accurate I always ask my parents how did they feel of having our family so young, I am 27 and i feel like 16 still π
Hihi….??β€οΈ
This is an amazing story. You sound very mature for your age.
Aaaaahhhhh….thank you, Mily! Iβm 25 years old, actually. ?
thank you for sharing this post. i guess all we could do right now is accept our mistakes, try hard not to focus on the “what ifs” and instead think about “what might” or “what should be.” learn something from it.
You’re welcome, Hart. ?β€
There’s never a perfect time to have a baby. No matter how prepared you are, how financially well off you are, a baby changes everything!
Hhhhmmmm….really? Alright Sarah, if you say so. ?ββ€
I’m sure that we have all made questionable choices in our lives. We can’t look back. Just keep going forward doing the best that you can.
Hhhhhmmmmmm….alright, Jared! I’ll do just that. Thank you. ?ββ€
Sometimes it’s hard to have to “grow up” before you are ready. Best of luck to you!
Aaaawwww….thank you, Anner! ??β€οΈ
We are all children in our souls, and we will always be children to our parents. Good luck and head up.
??β€οΈ thank you, DD
You’re going to be great!
Oooohhhh….thank you! Canβt wait. ??β€οΈ
A sobering thought to wake up to. It’s not easy being in your shoes.
Hhhhmmmmm…that’s for sure, Panushwari! Thank you for appreciating. ?ββ€
Exactly what I’m thinking. Good post by the way. ?
Aaaahhhhh….I’m glad to hear this, Juan. ?ββ€
Hey Baby π Hope life gets you a comfortable position to grow healthy with your baby.
Aaaawwwww…I sure hope so too, Bella! ?ββ€
No matter how or when it happens, parenthood is about being there and being the best example we can be to our little ones. Even though you didn’t have the role model you wanted, you can be who you needed when you were a child to your baby.
Aaawwww….thank you, Denisha! It means a lot. ??β€οΈ
Life sometimes throws us curve balls. I started my (our) family early at the age of 16. Looking back it now I have no idea how or why that happened. I now have 6 children and 3 grandbabies. The daddy, yes he is still here as well after 35+ years. I got a little lucky and hope lucky offers you some help as well.
Wow….now, this is a real curveball! How did you manage to pull through, the first time, Angie? ??β€οΈ
This is such a cute post. Thanks for sharing π
Aaaawwww….thank you, Suzanne, for appreciating. ??β€οΈ
Some tend to think our “age” no longer makes us a “baby” but in reality when you are immature “mentality, spiritually, and emotionally” regardless of our age we will remain”babies”.
Oooohhhhh…..youβve put it beautifully! Thank you. ??β€οΈ
We all have moments when we wish we had made better life choices. Regardless, what we’ve been through has molded us into the person we are today.
Hhhhmmmmm….talk about it, Dana! ??β€οΈ
I always believe that each of us are on our own sacred path. There is more that underlies your existence than simply being a baby that raises a baby. May this wisdom unfold for you in the right and perfect time, and the right and perfect way. <3
Ooohh…alright Evelyn honey. Thank you. ??β€οΈ
What a unique approach to reminding us to be gentle with ourselves. There was a really neat therapy method I heard of recently! You and your significant other swap photos of each other at approximately the age of 4 (the reason being that you’re old enough to resemble your adult self more than you’re likely to in a true “baby” photo), and you keep that photo somewhere you will see it every day—on a dresser, next to the bathroom mirror, on the fridge… Some place that is common for you to be and notice it. And to use it as a reminder that your loved one was once a child, just like you, and to remember that they can be hurt. Something that seems obvious, yet I’m sure we can all agree we can all use that reminder at some time in our lives!
Oooohhhh….thank you for appreciating. Weβve to be gentle with ourselves or else learn to! ??β€οΈ
You made the choice to stay and to try… that baby is blessed to have you, all of us are making it up as we go! You got this!
Hhhhhmmmmm…alright, Lydia! If you say so. Thank you. ??β€οΈ
completely agree with you. We are all children in our souls, and we will always be children to our parents
Aaaaahhhhhh….alright Minakshi! If you say so. Thank you.
We are all babies at heart. Age is just a number. When wisdom hits us it does!
Aaaaahhhhh…I almost forgot about that, again, Mitra! Thank you for reminding me.
You’ve got this!!! The fact that you consider yourself a baby shows that you realize there’s some growing up to do but it sounds like since you’ve recognized this, thats your first step and your well on your way. You’ve got this! Don’t ever be afraid to ask for help.
Hhhhhmmmmm…alright Ashley! If you say so. I believe you.
We have that level of being a baby but we also have that option to be man enough to face challenges and changes. I guess you are that kind of person – man enough to face the now.
Oooohhhh….I guess so, too, Momi Berlin! ??β€οΈ
It’s definitely an intense situation and I am sure that life threw you a curve here. Can’t go back to previous choices. You only have the ones in front of you. But you sound like you have the right idea about where you are going now.
And indeed, I’m going forward. I’ll need all the help I can get! Thank you. ?ββ€
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Hhhhmmmmm….unfortunately, I don’t know of any, as of this moment. I’ll look around surely! Aaahhhh…am glad to hear that. Thank you for the support.
What a good post! It reminds me that no matter the age you really need to be there for your kids and set the right example if your 88 or 18, they look up to you. Thanks for sharing! π
β€οΈ youβre welcome!
A baby suddenly makes you feel grown up but essentially you’re just a baby yourself. Well said.
Hihi….you got me there! Thank you for sharing.
I am a baby that has a baby too! I think being a grown up is not fun! HA
Hihi…..youβre so right! Many of us are never ready for it! ?β€οΈ?
Back then our great grandparents, grandparents and our parents had children when theyβre still babies too….
But times have changed……Hollywood is in the business of adoptions but third world countries are having sex with younger generations just due to poverty and passing time, which in the end result, most young girls end up pregnant and abandoned.
The question is, should abortion be free and legalized???
Hhhhhmmmmmm….good question there! I’ll be writing a blog on it soon enough!
You know it’s great to have a baby, a kid of our own. No matter you’re yourself still ‘a baby’, in fact you have one! It’s amazing and life will continue with many colours, ….. Dad π
Hehe….alright EDWIN. Thank you for that. ??β€οΈ
I definitely still feel like a baby, especially when I am feeling ill or tired, and it’s weird to think that in a few months, I will be taking care of one!
Aaaawwwwww….its alright! We got you, you know that, right? ??
I was 14 when I got pregnant and although I would never choose to do it that way again, I am very proud of my 38 year old son and my 4 grandbabies. He is a fine man, respectful and loyal, hardworking and loving.
Aaaawwwww….thatβs sweet. Iβm so glad to hear that, Sheila! ?β€οΈ??
Good stuff, cheers for postingβ¦ π
Do you write all of your posts urself or do you have a team?
Outsource? Do you allow for guest writers?
Yeah, I do write all my posts. And also, yes, I do allow guest writers to post here!
Hi! I’m at work browsing your blog from my new iphone 4!
Just wanted to say I love reading through your blog and look forward to all your posts!
Carry on the great work!
Hey hey! Thank you for appreciating. I definitely will!
Do you write all of your blogs yourself or do you have a team?
Outsource? Do you have guest writers?
Oh yes, I do write all my blogs. I haven’t had any guest writers before or as of yet.
Your story of a young dad is very touching and above all true.
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A lot of people have babies at a young age. Sometimes it’s by choice, sometimes it’s by accident. Either way, those little guys are such blessings. However you found yourself to be a father, I think it’s a wonderful thing.
ππ it truly is
is this about yourself? I was a product of an unwanted pregnancy but thankfully my birth parents chose life and gave me up for adoption.
ππ aawww….no, it is not about me!
Sometimes I think that when we have our first babies we are all babies. There is so much to learn at that point. And the more support we have, the better!
Hihi….yyyeeaaahhhhh!
Ah thank you so much for this. Yes we are babies in many ways and we need someone who will continually guide us to things that are still unknown to us. A good article.
π³π³ thanks for appreciating.
We learn and grow from the choices we make and the experiences that we have. Though it’s difficult now, I hope that it’s a fulfilling experience raising your child, nonetheless.
π³π it will be in due time.
We all have to start out as babies, then we grow and learn. Sometimes we still act like babies though, haha.
ππ I kkknnnooowwwww!
Catchy headline! haha! You are a baby indeed!
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Things happen and its not in your control. I’ll just say we all are babies no matter how old we become!
ππ amen to that!
Beautiful poetic piece. Many are still babies themselves when they have a baby!
ππππ that’s bad!!!