Do you believe more schooled girl-children turn out to be more all-round, attached and focused world-citizens?
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Personally, I highly believe so because for one thing, Iβve witnessed it happen over the years Iβve lived. Basing on the motherly figures I grew up with around me, I managed to witness first-hand what true education can do to change the world. My mother managed to bring it to my attention that itβs not about the number of classes one has sat in but the summation of the knowledge theyβve accumulated over their entire life and daily experiences, as well.
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I managed to volunteer actively in the field of Sexual Reproductive Health and Rights of young people during 2015 and what I came across was simply amazing. Most of all, I got to appreciate that many young girls, out there, do what they do simply they havenβt had an education at all. Or, if they have gotten one, itβs meant to sideline them at the benefit of their counterparts, the boys.
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Particularly, I have a big problem with many of the cultures in the world that still believe educating of the girl-children is a waste of time and resources. Millions of girl-children in the world grow up believing and knowing that fearing someone is being humble with them, for example. Others believe they have no say in the choice for the husbands theyβre to have.
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Being that majority of such cultures are static; this is what children were and have been made to believe. In my opinion, this is something very impractical in our 21st century. We are shooting at aiming children that get to question everything ranging from how they came to be unto this world, to why the sun shows up in the morning and sets in the evening, to the kind of relationship theyβre engaging inβ¦ for if they donβt learn to ask these questions then, their knowledge from class wonβt be of much help to them. (At least, thatβs what I believe).
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Here in Uganda, my home country, we are still facing this challenge of parents purposefully βomittingβ their girl-children from school simply because theyβre targeting material gains like dowry from βfuture husbandsβ. If Iβm to utilize the school attendance-system of Uganda, as an example, many more girls are present at school during the nursery school level and as they progress into the primary level of school, we witness many of those same girls skipping school occasionally and finally disappearing for good, after a while. Furthermore, secondary level of school has fewer of these girl-children attending to school due to the simple reason(s) of being married – off early, termination of their schooling experience simply because they were / are pregnant, paying allegiance to peer customs, beliefs and practices among others.
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So, hereβs my question:
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Why canβt we educate the girl β child more?
Regardless of what society might say or do, your daughter is and shall your daughter and therefore, you ought to give her the best in life. A life minus a meaningfully β directional education for any girl-child isnβt a life, at all. Besides, how do you expect her to navigate her way through this tough world, without an education to her keeps? We all appreciate that acquiring an education is beautiful and brings outstanding meaning to life. Whatever an educated girl intends or gets to do carries meaning to her life and the world, in general, inspires other young girls to do better and move further in life.
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Education is just the best sieve we can have for the tea we take from and within the world. Itβs meant to guide individuals into assessing situations for what they are, make judgments and calls accordingly to the pending situations and thereby, make predictions for the future occurrences. To beat and put to rest all these inconsistencies we witness in them, perhaps, education could be the βthingβ they are looking for. I look forward to a world where all girl-children can comfortably make choices for themselves and their lives, without feeling pressurized into doing anything they wouldnβt want to.
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Youβve probably come across the world-changing hash tag, #WhatWomenWant Β , correct? Different women and girls have different needsβ¦No, not different needs per say but unique needs.
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Education is among those that repetitively stand out and that should be enough to raise a voice for the voiceless (uneducated girl-children). Girl β children need love, affection, nice clothes, shoes, roses, chocolates, nice phones, their βsqueezesβ but all that can be made better with an education.
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We all have the capacity to make it happen for the girl-child, today and tomorrow and the days after.
Letβs #EducateTheGirlChild MORE!
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??? thank you, Paulls !
Things are not so nice for girl-children in my home country (India) as well. Despite repeated government-backed promotions and incentives for parents to send their daughters to school, still a large section of society believes- a woman’s place is in the kitchen.
Liked your post. Could relate to it.
Aaawwww…thatβs sad but we shall overcome, one day! ??β€οΈ
I’d love to volunteer somewhere, but my responsibilities and full time job is keeping me here π hopefully one day i can go and change the world at least a little bit too!
Aaaahhhhh….I do hope so, Monycka! ?ββ€
It all comes down to the geographical area the girl-children are at, and how much support/value is given to the schooling of each girl-child.
But whoever is giving a hand in helping and promoting these girls-children, please keep up the great work ??????
Very true. Personally, I’m one of those people that are helping the girl-children out! ?ββ€
Wow what an insight. I think here in the states we really take for granted things that we feel are so simple like an education. Keep those girls in school!
??? Iβll keep doing so, Ashley! Thank you for sharing and appreciating.
Girl child has to be educated…I believe you teach a girl child u educate the whole family coz it’s the mother who brings up and educates the kids
Oooohhhh….alright Krish! If you say so. ??β€οΈ
Here are the nice blog posts that I like, the ones that get me out of my “little garden” and discover the real world and its light and dark.
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Yesssss! I used to work in a non-profit. Totally agree that education is so crucial for the girl-child.
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Wow very interesting. I didn’t realize there are places in the world, where girls don’t have the same opportunities as boys to go to school and learn. Here in the States, everyone can go to school, in fact everyone is supposed to go to school regardless if they are a boy or girl. Of course, some kids are homeschooled. And yes! Girls should definitely have the same privilege of learning as boys.
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Your writing is always so thoughtful and informative. Itβs sad some girls donβt have much choice over their lives but thank you for your contribution to changing that!
ππ you are welcome.
I think education is the key to opening up the world to all children, but most especially women. There are still so many places where girls don’t get the education they deserve.
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Very interesting post. Hmmmm…. We shall overcome some day coming. Thanks for sharing
ππ³ we surely will!!!
Education is important and I’m glad you wrote about it. I believe in fair education for kids!
ππ good to know!!!
I think more education is needed for everyone. We could probably understand each other better and do realize great things together.
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education should be something every young boy and girl should expect to have for free no matter their language, religion, race, sex, or location. have you heard of the david oyelowo scholarship for girls in Nigeria? I blogged about it — pretty amazing.
ππ no, I haven’t!!!
Countries that operate like Uganda will be stagnant and outdated if they continue to operate under the idea that only boys should be educated. It’s ridiculous.
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It is so unfortunate that girls are held back in so many ways worldwide. I wonder how different things would be if girls were encouraged in their potential rather than stifled.
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Congrats on your valunteer work. It s absolutely admirable and something that most of us should try at some point in our lives. Great post!!
ππ thank you!
I think education is really important. We also need support from the government about education programs.
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Absolutely! I think schooling is important not for the education aspect but also the overall development – how to interact with people is an important aspect of growing up!
ππ youβre very right about that!
Living in the U.S., it’s hard to believe people think girls shouldn’t be educated. I guess every country has its issue. Keep fighting and doing what you do.
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