Have you made an effort to find out what the other person wants?
He, She, They
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Regardless of how big or small it may be?
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You do know that you could be the savior of the day, right?
Have you made an effort to find out what the other person wants?
He, She, They
Photo credit: outreach.com.au
Regardless of how big or small it may be?
Photo credit: hikingartist.com
You do know that you could be the savior of the day, right?
I think we should enjoy being selfless and always try to know what the other person wants…although we hardly do so,right?
Yyyyeeeaaahhhhhh….that’s a lovely thought, Dalene. It’s so sad about that other part, though! ?❤✊
Let me find out what “she” wants.
Oohhhhh….perfect then! ?❤✊
Yes, I do. Especially when the other person is in a bad mood. However, I rather search for what is needed instead 🙂
Oooohhhhh….that’s good of you, Chen! ✊???❤️
well, i try to be considerate and think about it – but not only what the other person wants, but also what the other person needs, cause sometimes the need something that they don’t want – and that’s something to think about as well, is my opinion.
Aaahhhh….I love your logic, Namra ! Makes all the sense in the world. ??❤️
More hugs to Chen?
Yyyyeeesssss, Doreen!
That is so true, giving a person your time and being atune to their needs makes so much difference.
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I can dedinitely know what they really want girls will bebgirls and biya will be boys. It is easy to define.
Hhhhhmmmmmm….alright Preet. If you say so! ?❤✊
This is so important! Taking the time and effort to see past yourself in a situation or relationship can make such a big difference.
Oh yyyeeaahhhhh Heather! ?❤✊
Yes, I did that for so many times. It is really hard but at the end it’s worth it.
Ooooohhhhh….I’m glad to hear that, Batarra! ??❤️
Empathy and showing you actually care about the other person you interact with is the key to any meaningful communication or relationship. It would be impossible to genuinely relate to anyone without it. So important.
Ooooohhhh….alright Nicole. If you say so! ??❤️
What a great reminder, thank you.
You’re welcome, Alexis! ??❤️
This is such an important thing to remember no matter what the relationship is to the person. Sometimes when it comes to having a working, friendly, or loving relationship you have to remember to listen, know, or do what the other wants not just what you want.
Aalllrrriiigghhhhttttttt Cassie! If you say so. ??❤️
Exactly! Sometimes all it takes is having someone there to listen or to ask what they need. It seems like such a simple task but it’s so hard to do when your focus on yourself.
Oh yeah! ??❤️
This is a good reminder for all of us! It can make a big difference!
Indeed! ??❤️
Yes, by asking the question back to them is the easier way to find. It they themselves do not know then it is even harder for me to figure out.
Oooohhhh….alright! If you say so. ??❤️
I think it all comes down to communication, and that’s not always easy.
Hhhhhmmmmm….you’re right, Nancie! ??❤️
Hmmm…I’m not really good at “communicating” and I just try to guess what other people want from me rather than ask outright
Hhhhmmmmm….would you want to get better at communicating, though Thea? ??❤️
This is great advice for communication. It is important to hear people’s needs.
Ooohhh….thank you, Holly for appreciating. Always! ??❤️
Communication is the foundation of any relationship. I think talking and finding out about each other is important.
Aaaahhhhh….alright Elizabeth! If you say so. ?❤️?
Great thoughts! As the old saying goes, he who refreshes others will be refresh too!
Oooohhhh…..that’s a nice one, Eliza! ?❤️?
We should all be more considerate to what others want, at least before we make a decision that can affect others.
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Reciprocation, mutual respect. It takes two to become one, as one and one equals two. Love and hate, fact and fiction, sun and moon, the dualism of a respectable level of development. In order to achieve anything with another person, you must care about them, love them profoundly, and respect them. Great blog post.
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I think good communication is needed to find out what other person need or want!!
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Yes, we can all be a savior to someone else. And we can do this every single day.
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uh sometimes I think more about problems of others people more than about myself. I’m trying to help them, but maybe you know that sometimes they even don’t appreciate this, so sad.
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Love the artwork, a good reminder that small actions can make all the difference
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I think it all boils down to active listening. I remember one quote from Steven Covey – “Most people do not listen with an intent to understand. They listen with the intent to reply.” Listen with your heart and you will understand the other person’s needs and wants, even if they not verbalize it.
????? you got that right and so did Steven!
We have to listen to other people’s wants and needs. We need to have an open communication.
????? I would so much love that.