Has something gone wrong in your life lately and you were blamed by everybody?
Then, this same thing literally happens and now, everyone turns back looking at you.
They have this face of, “we are blaming you, of course” on them!
The difference this time is that you are innocent!
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They are so used to blaming someone, anyone, or anything for what has happened or their actions.
They don’t know life outside throwing blame.
This time, they can’t pin anything particular on you.
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How do you think they are feeling towards you?
Are you happy that the boat sunk with you as a passenger?
Don’t you look forward to the next person they are to blame?
There is way too much finger pointing in the world today. No one wants to take responsibility!
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Everyone loves to blame someone else for everything these days. Sometimes people need to look in the mirror to see where the problem is located.
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I don’t blame anyone for my circumstances. I do look for responsibility so that I can correct the issue if possible. But that’s not to find fault, that’s to find and address the cause.
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I feel this everyday. My kids blame me for everything. If they lose something, if they’re running late for school, if they’re tired. It’s always my fault 😫
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You know, since becoming a mother, I have learned a lot about people behaviour. At the end of day, it doesn’t who blame who, so klong the situation have been solved.
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Sometimes it is easier to blame than take responsibility!
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Hmm, I think I’m lucky one. No one was trying to blame me in the last 6 months. Anyway, I’m not taking shaming personally; it is their problem.
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It’s frustrating when others shift blame unjustly. Your post captures that feeling well. It’s a reminder that people often need someone to point fingers at, even when it’s undeserved. Keep sharing your thoughts and experiences!
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It feels more like a coping mechanism to hide your own guilt and wrong decisions. But this never helps instead it makes life more complicated. I try to shit down and avoid toxic people who try to blame others for their faults. That’s my way of dealing situations.
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If I was blame by something I didn’t do, I would not accept what others are saying. But I can imagine how hard it is if everyone is blaming someone else for something they didn’t do.
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I do think that people are quick to blame others and not be accountable. I can relate!
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I’ve had bosses who blamed me for things I didn’t do. it was a frustrating experience as there was no changing their minds in spite of the evidence.
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Everyone is quick to point the finger at someone else and blame them these days. I think this is especially true in the workplace.
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You always make me think! As far as myself being blamed for minor things, I’m kinda OK with it because I know in my heart I’m OK. It’s not worth my time or energy to address it. For the big things – that’s a different story!
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This is a thought provoking article. It does seem to be a trend that people like pointing fingers away from themselves to deflect blame.
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The thing with blame is that we often hesitate to take it. Yet one of the hardest lessons to learn in life is to own up to something and accept the blame for what it is.
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Sometimes I am OK to take the blame – just to keep it peaceful !
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A lot of people do not like taking responsibility for things they’ve done, so a lot of finger pointing happens. I see it a lot in other departments where I work.
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I think even in the situations where we feel we are a vicitm, there are things we could have done to have a different outcome. Sometimes the rug gets swept from under your feet entirely, but most of the time, there are clues things aren’t going so well.
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Honestly, I would have liked to learn more about the topic, as this is an excellent article.
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This is so true and I had been through that as well. Also, know how it feels when it happened..
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