As a person that knows you don’t love me, I ask you for a favour;
If you don’t like me no more, please let me know now.
So that I can begin packing my belongings (heart and mind) away from you!
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We will save a lot of time we could have spent on fruitless “negotiations” around the affairs of the heart.
Yet, there is somebody out there that has been eyeing me for a while now, waiting their moment to let me know of their affections for me!
Love this. So simple, yet so difficult for many. Imagine all the heartbreak and hurt feelings that could be avoided by just letting people know.
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Letting a person go can be difficult. Moving on is hard especially when there is history.
😩😩 but necessary!
Agreed. I think it’s a waste of time to stay in a relationship or friendship with someone when clearly it’s a one way street. While I realize you never want to burn any bridges, I think moving on is a healthy step to a life that is without drama.
Maureen | http://www.littlemisscasual.com
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I really wish people would follow this more often! It would cause some possible heartache for a while, but save so much trouble in the long run.
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Exactly. Time is precious and there is no point spending it with someone that isn’t interested in you.
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I guess it is good to make a break when you know things aren’t going to work out. We could save a lot of time and effort and anguish.
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Time wasting is bad yet we keep aging.
Though decisions involving both the mind and heart are difficult
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Always good to communicate with someone so you don’t waste your own time or theirs!
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I think this is a great idea, being frank and honest with anyone is the way everybody should be! Yes, it is gonna hurt at first but it will relieve us of much greater and accumulated pain in the future!
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Yes, its definitely hard to respect someone else’s free will, especially if we are attached emotionally. But, we need to try…
That’s so true!
Moving past a relationship that doesn’t work can be so hard! I love this post. It’s very meaningful.
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Being strong enough to let someone go is such an admirable trait. Even when you know it’s going to hurt you. It’s something I find extremely difficult.
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I could feel your words. And yes if you ain’t in love you shouldn’t drag it.
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This is a very selfless thing to do which is why it can be so hard for some people!
That’s so true but we must try!
It’s not always easy to admit a relationship is over. It’s better to end it once you know though to stop wasting each other’s time.
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It’s not always easy to admit a relationship is over. It’s better to end it once you know though to avoid wasting the other person’s time.
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It’s an extremely hard, but important lesson to learn. Agree with your perspective – just let them know.
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It’s a good rule but hard to follow. I wish I knew and have done this sooner before my relationship got worse.
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Honesty is always appreciated even if it hurts or even in painful situations. I would do this too. If I don’t like the person I am with, I will jus let them know.
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It’s really very simple, however most of us tend to make this very hard. If you are not interested, please say so immediately! Some of the best advice…
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Aaah, sorry, I don’t love you…… I like you… lol Honesty is good and makes life easier for everything. I agree with you need to be honest with each other.
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Letting go is hard, but sometimes needed. Whether a relationship or friendship – it’s difficult.
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Right. People waste so much time when they know they don’t want to be around. If kids aren’t involved, just go already so I can move on to better things. And vice versa.
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This resonates with me more than you can imagine right now! My son is going through this right now. He needs to break up with this girl so she can find her ‘person”. No point in sticking around if you know
😩😩 aaawwww….sorry about that!
In my experience, I found that when I let them know I am no longer interested, they start putting in more effort.
😩😩😩 typical of us!
The world would be such a better place if everyone was just more honest with one another. Why waste anyones time?
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I agree! I think sadly it’s a lesson only learned after a broken heart or two.
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I doubt many people will tell you that as I’m sure they like you as a person. Personally, I agree. Better for others / someone to tell me rather than talk bad behind my back.
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Honesty is always a good policy. I rather know what’s in my partner’s heart and mind rather than being blindsided.
This views also applies to friendships.
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